Bristol Rugby star speaks about daughter's leukaemia battle
Bristol Rugby player Kevin Maggs has spoken for the first
time about his daughter's battle with leukaemia.
The former Ireland centre had been back at his home club for
six months when his daughter, Jessica, was diagnosed with the
disease on New Year's Eve last year. She was just two years and
ten months old.
The news rocked Kevin, 34, and his wife Jayne, 35, and
heralded a traumatic six months while Jessica was treated at
Bristol Children's Hospital.
She is now back at home and full of energy after responding
well to her treatment.
Kevin, who returned home after playing for Ulster for three
seasons and Bath for six, had a nightmare first season back at
Bristol because of persistent injury problems.
But he said his own struggle to get match fit was nothing
compared to his daughter's fight with cancer.
Kevin and Jayne had put Jess's feelings of lethargy down to
a bug picked up at pre-school and had no idea it could be
something so serious.
The couple said the full extent of their little girl's
illness did not really take hold until they arrived at Ward 34
of Bristol Children's Hospital and saw the sign for
oncology.
Kevin said: "All 'round, it has been our worst year
ever.
"Everything had been going so well, we were coming home and
then as soon as we came back everything started to go
wrong.
"It was the worst year in my career injury-wise and we were
just looking forward to getting to New Year and putting it
behind us and trying to forget about the six months since we
had returned.
"To find out Jess had leukaemia on New Year's Eve was the
worst thing I could have heard."
The couple feel they were lucky that the GP they saw on New
Year's Eve had picked up that Jess's pallor and dark bruises
were a possible sign of leukaemia and rushed a blood test
through.
They took the sample to the Royal United Hospital in Bath
themselves, to ensure they were seen straight away and the
initial diagnosis was made.
Jess was then referred to Bristol Children's Hospital from
January 1, where it took five days for doctors to determine
that they were dealing with acute myeloid leukaemia and could
start the first of four rounds of chemotherapy and almost six
months in hospital.
Jayne, 35, said: "My instant reaction was, 'we are going to
lose her'.
"You think my child's not sick like the others on the
ward."
"You are not sure until you are in that situation how
complex it is", Kevin added.
Jayne said: "It was the last thing we would have thought of.
We went from thinking she had just caught a virus to being told
that she had leukaemia, it was devastating."
One of the hardest parts of Jess's illness for Jayne to deal
with was when her daughter lost her long, blonde curly
hair.
But she was impressed by the way the youngster dealt with
it.
"She would just say 'it'll grow back mummy'.
"And she told one of her aunties, quite matter of fact, that
her hair was in a carrier bag."
During Jess's treatment, Jayne would stay on the ward six
nights a week and on Fridays, Kevin would take a fold-out
bed.
He said: "The rugby club were very good to me and my
situation. I would come in and do my rehab, recovery and
conditioning as much as I could in the morning, which would
allow me to go down and spend time with my wife and daughter in
hospital in the afternoon."
The family were also relieved that they had their friends
and family around them during Jess's treatment.
Kevin said: "We are lucky that our family are from Bristol
and our support network was around us. We had only been back
from Belfast for six months."
Jayne said: "It would have been incredibly difficult for us
to deal with that so far away from friends and family.
"If you can be glad about things involving leukaemia, we
were glad we were here."
They saw other families on the ward who were staying in CLIC
House because they were so far away from home and otherwise
would have had to rely on hotels to be near their children.
Jess took much of the treatment in her stride, although was
adamant that she did not want a feeding tube like some of the
other children on the ward.
Her parents said she got through the days when she was low
from the medication by watching DVDs, usually featuring
princess stories.
While Jess was in hospital and for the first couple of
months afterwards, her parents made the difficult decision to
keep her friends and much of her family away for fear of
passing on bugs while her immune system was down.
Now the youngster, who turned three while in hospital, is
happy and healthy and runs around the house like any other
three-and-a half-year-old. She is looking forward to going back
to pre-school to play with her friends after almost nine months
away.
The couple were impressed by the efforts of all the staff
that helped them and their daughter during their stay at the
children's hospital, from domestics to doctors, including
nurses and play specialists.
Kevin said: "I don't think people realise sometimes that the
children's hospital is such a main centre for oncology and
general child health.
"We want to thank everyone on Ward 34 and the children's
hospital, all the doctors and nurses who helped us get through
the worst five-and-a-half months of our lives, and the play
specialists and domestics.
"The NHS has been brilliant."
Jayne added: "We are so grateful they helped her get out the
other end because there were times when she was really ill, as
are all the other children in there. You would wonder if their
little bodies could get through it."
Despite responding well to treatment, Jess still has to
return to Bristol Children's Hospital once a month for
check-ups, but now she is at home and enjoying the chance to
run around and play with her toys.








2 Comments
by P Radford, Bristol
Monday, March 30 2009, 3:11PM
“It¿s so fantastic to see the millions of pounds of money raised for Leukaemia Research keeping families together. My wife lost her brother when he was 8 years old back in the 70s. Back then only a few survived,. Today 8 in 10 kids can make it thanks to the fantastic research funded fully by donations. My 14-year-old nephew survived a bone marrow transplant that they told us was very unlikely to work last year because of a new technique only recently pioneered. My hat is off to the volunteer fundraisers and the docs. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.”
by Mike Kearney, Temple Cloud, Bristol
Tuesday, September 02 2008, 11:17AM
“As an Irishman living in Bristol, I have always followed the career of Kevin with interest and l loved the way he conducted himself, both on and off the pitch. A great guy and a credit to his profession and heritage. Best wishes to you, Jayne & Jessica.”